7 reasons why women hate condoms even more than men do

Men are notorious for being the chief condom complainers when it comes to sex (I mean, they’re the ones who usually have to wear them), but guess what, guys?  Just as many women hate condoms. I would even venture to say that women hate them more — because there are many more reasons for women to hate them. But […]

Do Things Tonight: Fingering Her and Only Finger Her

There are a lot of underrated sex acts, but here’s a big one you’ve probably been ignoring: fingering. Most adults tend to forget about fingering, but I’m going to show you why I think this act deserves a place in any couple’s sexual repertoire, and give you some tips for how to do it properly. […]

Should You Always Tell Your Partner If You Cheated?

There are few relationship questions more hotly debated than whether or not you should confess to cheating in a monogamous relationship. The main arguments for fessing up is that honesty is always the best policy, and your partner deserves to choose for themselves whether or not to stay in the relationship. Secret-keeping proponents counter that […]

How To Ask Your Partner For Sex So They’ll Enthusiastically Say YES

Let’s get real: couples can start getting lazy initiating sex. Who here hasn’t tried to initiate sex by clumsily groping at their partner, or blurting out, “I guess it’s been a while. Should we do it?” It might feel easier, but it can also feel wildly impersonal. Let’s talk about how to initiate sex in […]

20 Things You Need To Hear After A Breakup

Coming to you straight from Heartbreak Hotel, here are some of the best things that you don’t want (but need) to hear after you’ve had your heart crushed and puréed. 1. “I’m here for you.” Totally cliché? Absolutely, but effective nonetheless. Knowing that you can call on a friend to bawl your eyes out because your ex-partner […]

Things To Say During A Breakup

Every relationship is a unique, special snowflake – until it dissolves. Then its contents are reduced to cliché-riddled proclamations and accusations. Breakups bring the crappy screenwriter out in all of us. One minute we’re all, “You are the warmest socks on the coldest winter day,” and the next we’re reciting lines from a Jennifer Aniston […]

7 (Nice) Ways to Break Up With Someone

Sometimes people suck. They cheat on you with your best friend and skip your sister’s wedding to watch a basketball game they could DVR and watch later. In these situations, you probably don’t need to worry about breaking up sweetly — you can just end it. But sometimes people who aren’t right for you are nonetheless great, […]